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Love and Pain

Lovers,

Here is another playlist featuring music about my latest topic the collision of love and pain. Who wins?

Well in Fedora’s world love always prevails. So listen and enjoy the ride. Don’t forget to visit my YouTube channel and become a subscriber. I have much more coming for you soon.

Fedora loves you. Peace

Love Among Thorns

I love you
Despite your brokenness
Despite that you have
Torn my heart apart

I love you
Because you deserve
Love just like I do
Embrace my love

As you move forward
Do your best to break free
From the things that
Broke you in the first place

Strive to be a person
Who heals
Instead of hurts
Love yourself
Unconditionally
As God does

I love you
Among your thorns
I delight in your fruit
Born from our love

Four Things a Man Needs in a Woman Before Marriage by Myles Munroe

Lovers,

I am on a new mission. God has given me a voice to help heal the hearts of those who have been hurt by love, failed relationships, marriages, and life. God is calling us back to the original design. Yes, I know many people don’t believe that the Bible is real and don’t believe in God or Jesus. That is not what this is about.

This is about how men and women were created to interact with each other. The roles we were born to fulfill and when it is done genuinely there is fulfillment in the marriage, in the individuals, in the family, in the community, and in the world. But when the family is broken all of these elements are touched negatively.

As a mature woman who did it incorrectly the first time I am thankful that God has allowed me the opportunity to get it right. I have spent the last ten years working on myself as a woman. Perfecting my singleness so that I may be a whole being, strong, healthy, and ready to fulfill my role as the helper for my husband. I will get it right this time.

I will be sharing a series of videos and posts on this subject to help you do the same. This is not just for women it’s for men too. There are so many men who are lost and don’t know how to find their vision. Part of finding their path is knowing what they need, understanding the mate who was created to help them.

Enjoy this message and prayerfully it will inspire you to begin your journey towards wholeness in your marriage or singleness in preparation for your marriage.

Fedora Loves You. Peace

Back to My Life

Line in the Sand by FedoraDrawing a line in the sand symbolizes that you have reached the limit with something. Simply put enough is enough. This week I have been pushed to my limits with people and situations that have attempted to overload me emotionally and push me into abandoning my path to follow theirs.

I broke up with someone a few years ago who has refused to let me go. I allowed him to stay close for a while because he was a good friend. But he hurt me deeply when he made choices to maintain relationships with his ex-girlfriend. I was not going to be second to any woman especially when the man was constantly trying to convince me that I am first. But that is exactly the thing he was trying to convince me. There should be no convincing needed! Either I am or I am not.

Clearly I was not number one and he was selfish. I put the Letoya Luckett song “Back 2 Life” on my site because it tells a truth that I am clearly living right now. I am so damn tired of men wasting my time with their selfish agendas and I am not allowing it anymore. The key phrase in her song that resonates with me is “You can have those other bitches Cause I’m not the jealous type.” I’m not. I am a beautiful woman who brings a lot to the table so any man who thinks he has better in the other woman should keep right on walking to her.

So today I am done! I claim my healing from the wound he left in my heart when he wanted her more than me. When she was his priority but I was only when he needed something. She should be his woman, so that’s why I removed myself so he would be free to seek whomever he wanted. I love myself too much to allow any man to devalue me. I draw my line in the sand. I am ready to move forward.

I am getting back to my life, back to reality.

Back 2 Life by LeToya Luckett

Maybe I’m supposed to lie
Maybe I’m not too good at saying goodbyes, gotta get better
Maybe I’m supposed to break down
Or willing to fake how
You’re making me feel, tell me whenever
Somehow I thought I could build with you
I thought it was real with you
Doubted myself now
I don’t really know
I told myself that every day

Maybe we’ll survive
Maybe it’s a lie
To keep our love alive
But I know you want to ride
So I gotta get…

Back to life…
(Back to reality)
Back to life…
Back to reality
Back to life…
(Back to reality)
I love you even though you ain’t good for me

I remember when we stunted in your new thing
Got you curvy side bitches like some loose change
I made you my new flame
I been ridin’ wit cha
Don’t you remember when I told you I would stay down
Not going back ’cause maybe I need break now
Before I break down

Worked so hard
It’s so hard
Baby to let it fall apart
Fall apart
So I gotta get…

Back to life…
(Back to reality)
Back to life…
Back to reality
Back to life…
(Back to reality)
I love you even though you ain’t good for me

I just gotta get back baby
Away now, away now
(I love you even though you ain’t good for me)
You ain’t living the life that you claim
All of that shit is a game
I’mma just work through the pain
And get back to my life

Lately
You don’t get it
I can’t get you off my mind
And you can have them other bitches
Cause I’m not the jealous type

I used to think it was me
But it’s your own insecurities
You know that I love you crazy
Thing is you think that
I’ll never leave

So I gotta get back to life
Back to reality
So I gotta get back to life
Get back to me
Back to life..
Back to reality..
Back
Back to life..
Back to reality..
I love you even though you ain’t good for me

(Back to life)
(Back to reality)